Questions and Answers With A Sexpert

Question:

Dear Sexpert,

I have been in the market recently for a dildo, but I can’t decide what dildo types would be the best for my specific want. I am hoping to find something realistic, but not overly exaggerated. Vibrations are nice, but not necessary. Any recommendations? - Desperate for a dildo

Answer:

Dear desperate,

Coming into the sex store is one of the hardest things you can do. There are so many dildo types on the market now a days trying to find one suited for your needs can not only be difficult, it can be down right frustrating. To properly select a toy you have to understand your wants and needs of the toy, and then make a selection accordingly. Since you have given a rough idea, I can begin to suggest some dildo types, but ultimately the choice is yours.
You did not specify if you had any allergies, so I am basing my recommendation on the assumption that you don’t. Majority of sex shops sell two fantastic realistic models, a silicone toy is relatively realistic without the cost of a life like model and is an easy to clean choice. When selecting your toy, you will also want to consider the size of toy. Seeing as men’s members are anywhere from four to eight inches, something in that size will suit your needs just fine.
I am not sure whether you were suggesting a realistic size compared to a realistic model, but as I’m sure you are aware, men don’t vibrate. That being said there are several toys on the market those look and feels like the real thing, and if that’s not cutting it for you, they also have the added bonus of a vibration as well. Most toys that have a vibration are not designed to have extreme vibrations, but rather a subtle feel.

Best wishes
Sexpert